Hello, I am Sudhir. I originally belong to district Etah in western Uttar Pradesh.
I am working as an Assistant Professor of English at Bundelkhand College Jhansi, a government aided institution. This is a government job.
I am liberal, progressive, and socially ambitious. I have been active in Dalit discourse and movement for a long time. I want to engage with it in future as well. I have been a sympathiser with the feminist movement. Though, I am a student of english literature, I am interested in all those things that make a person versatile. I am interested in studying different institutions such as religion, state, market, family, etc from civilizational point of view. In brief, I want to shape myself as a public intellectual and theorist.
My education, however, has been very humble. I belong to Etah, one of the most backward areas in western UP. My education after intermediate has been mostly self-study in very challenging circumstances. In graduation, there were almost no classes and my MA in English literature was as a private student. Given this, the fulfilling of my ambitious goals requires rigorous and focused diligence.
I like music. It appeals to the innermost core of my heart. I also like comedy shows. I myself am a person with a good sense of humor. I am also a good talker. You will never get bored while you talk to me. I am an incredible balance of contradictions. For example, I am a hopeless Romantic as well as a realist. I can walk with you miles entertaining you by my evocative silence and the tranquility of conversation. Then, on the other hand, I would like to talk about pain, misery, helplessness, and tears. Sometimes, I wouldn't talk but just look into your eyes.
I respect disagreements.
These are some of the glimpses of my personality and character. Although, I have used the capital 'I' lot of times in this introduction, something I am not: an egoist.
My family consists five members: my mother, a sister (married) and three brothers. I am the eldest. My father expired twelve years ago. The two younger brothers are well-educated and trying to settle.
Although with a rural background, my family is moderate and progressive. It's a middle-class family.
With the above-mentioned background, I am searching for a fellow, traveler in the journey of life who can cooperate and make our relationship meaningful. I am looking for someone who can engage with ideas, life and our relationship on equal terms. I don't give much value to the charms of skin. However, my partner should have some charm of personality so that I feel attracted to her at least in some way.