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Matrimony Groom VWC1080308
Matrimony ID - VWC1080308
44 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Baishya, Bengali
Dibrugarh, Assam, India
"Based in Dibrugarh. Our family is middle class and liberal. I have 3 siblings, of which 1 are married. I am current..."
Matrimony Groom CVQ3006338
Matrimony ID - CVQ3006338
31 years / 5 ft 11 in 181 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia
"Nothing to say I need just one good heart. And my family Parsons very friendly. I wish I well fiend here my soulmat..."
Matrimony Groom NVR4753485
Matrimony ID - NVR4753485
30 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Teli, Bengali
Other, West Bengal, India
"Living in Kolkata. I come from a upper middle class, moderate family. I have no brothers or sisters. I have attaine..."
Matrimony Groom QQD0421336
Matrimony ID - QQD0421336
33 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Bardhaman, West Bengal, India
"Need a good giri Looking good Poor rich accept..."
Matrimony Groom CVY3081464
Matrimony ID - CVY3081464
41 years / 4 ft 11 in 150 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Krishnanagar, West Bengal, India
"S nandi works as para teacher in a high school in krishnanagar. Father is retired.nuclear family with liberal value..."
Matrimony Groom BDH6636460
Matrimony ID - BDH6636460
29 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Mumbai, Maharashtra, India
"I would describe myself as someone who is a mix of traditional and modern values. i live in thane(mumbai), I am ..."
Matrimony Groom DTJ0107240
Matrimony ID - DTJ0107240
31 years / 5 ft 9 in 176 cm
Hindu, Patra, Bengali
Midnapore, West Bengal, India
"My job is in self employed. I work full time. Our family is middle class and we have traditional values. I have 3 s..."
Matrimony Groom HDV5751677
Matrimony ID - HDV5751677
29 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Other, West Bengal, India
"I am not currently working however I have attained my masters. Our family is lower class and we have traditional va..."
Matrimony Groom YCS2460685
Matrimony ID - YCS2460685
38 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Looking for bengali girl, having traditional middle-class value to be housewife to settle down with...."
Matrimony Groom VLR7232540
Matrimony ID - VLR7232540
27 years / 5 ft 9 in 176 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Midnapore, West Bengal, India
"I have achieved my bachelors and i'm currently working full time in the field of a pesticide company .. My family ..."
Matrimony Groom RSK4981026
Matrimony ID - RSK4981026
31 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Simple living person from a orthodox Bengali nuclear mediocre family. Looking for a girl with good values who can a..."
Matrimony Groom QRM6862741
Matrimony ID - QRM6862741
27 years / 5 ft 9 in 176 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Jamshedpur, Jharkhand, India
"Coming soon... hi myself sunny Chatterjee I'm here for searching good life partner..one life partner is important i..."
Matrimony Groom SJP5168720
Matrimony ID - SJP5168720
29 years / 5 ft 11 in 181 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Pune, Maharashtra, India
"Preferrable introvert, cool and calm, intellegent, devoted to work and well-educated, polite and presentable. Value..."
Matrimony Groom NDK4136085
Matrimony ID - NDK4136085
52 years / 5 ft 8 in 173 cm
Hindu, Kshatriya, Bengali
Bankura, West Bengal, India
"Currently living in Bankura. My family is upper middle class and liberal. I have 1 sibling. I have completed my mas..."
Matrimony Groom YVS5386431
Matrimony ID - YVS5386431
24 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Krishnanagar, West Bengal, India
"I come from a middle-class, traditional family. I have three siblings. I have attained my honours degree and am cu..."
Matrimony Groom YRB3846010
Matrimony ID - YRB3846010
33 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Teli, Bengali
Baranagar, West Bengal, India
"I want a beautiful girl I am eager to meet my love. A beautiful girl not by looks but through her minds..."
Matrimony Groom CDG1441453
Matrimony ID - CDG1441453
42 years / 5 ft 11 in 181 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Im in search of someone who will love me more than I love myself...."
Matrimony Groom TKY3470635
Matrimony ID - TKY3470635
38 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia
"I am simple and polite person so I am looking honest and simple and polite person...."
Matrimony Groom VPC6561058
Matrimony ID - VPC6561058
51 years / 4 ft 6 in 137 cm
Muslim, Sunni, Bengali
Other, Surrey, UK
"Assalamualikum, seeking perfect Muslim woman, age 40 up. Thanks..."
Matrimony Groom CHB1208038
Matrimony ID - CHB1208038
31 years / 5 ft 10 in 178 cm
Hindu, Kashyap, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Currently living in Kolkata. I hail from a middle class, moderate family. I only have 1 sibling and they are marrie..."
Matrimony Groom CKD6977564
Matrimony ID - CKD6977564
29 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India
"My family is middle class and traditional. I have 2 siblings, of which 2 are married. I have done my masters and..."
Matrimony Groom WGS2425885
Matrimony ID - WGS2425885
29 years / 5 ft 9 in 176 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Jagatsinghpur, Odisha, India
"I am working full time and have achieved my bachelors. Our family is middle class and we have traditional values. I..."
Matrimony Groom ZTB2815226
Matrimony ID - ZTB2815226
35 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Srirampur, West Bengal, India
"We settelrd recently in Bengal after fathers retirement from BSNL at Dehri on sone, Bihar. all of our family member..."
Matrimony Groom PPG7526177
Matrimony ID - PPG7526177
39 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Katni, Madhya Pradesh, India

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Matrimony Groom QFZ1710686
Matrimony ID - QFZ1710686
34 years / 5 ft 9 in 176 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh
"I am Fayjur Rahman Faysal. I am a full time business person. Completed my bsc CSE. Love to experience new business ..."
Matrimony Groom VYP8615377
Matrimony ID - VYP8615377
36 years / 5 ft 11 in 181 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Pune, Maharashtra, India
"Hi I am searching bride for my brother. He is very simple and family oriented boy. We are looking for a suitable gi..."
Matrimony Groom NCD1687042
Matrimony ID - NCD1687042
28 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Baishya, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"I have successfully finished my honours degree and I am currently working full time. Our family is middle class and..."
Matrimony Bride TLD6273625
Matrimony ID - TLD6273625
23 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Living in Kolkata. My family is middle class and moderate. I only have 1 sibling. I don't smoke or drink. I am non ..."
Matrimony Bride SJC4338385
Matrimony ID - SJC4338385
39 years / 4 ft 6 in 137 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Baranagar, West Bengal, India
"I hail from a liberal, middle class family. I have no siblings. I am not currently working however I have succes..."
Matrimony Bride BBT0104136
Matrimony ID - BBT0104136
20 years / 5 ft 1 in 155 cm
Hindu, Prajapati, Bengali
Bokaro Steel City, Jharkhand, India
"Living in Bokaro Steel City. My family is upper-middle-class and moderate. I have two siblings. I have completed my..."
Matrimony Bride HCJ5045429
Matrimony ID - HCJ5045429
28 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Bankura, West Bengal, India
"Girl with simplicity want to marry a decent man who will take care of me...."
Matrimony Bride WKF3132410
Matrimony ID - WKF3132410
29 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Noida, Uttar Pradesh, India
"Living in Noida. Our family is upper class and moderate. I have no brothers or sisters. I have done my bachelors in..."
Matrimony Bride FRY3425706
Matrimony ID - FRY3425706
17 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Other, West Bengal, India
"Living in West Bengal. Our family is middle class and we have traditional values. I am the only child. I eat a non ..."
Matrimony Bride ZSB2021468
Matrimony ID - ZSB2021468
31 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, ST, Bengali
Jalpaiguri, West Bengal, India

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Matrimony Bride MDZ9768843
Matrimony ID - MDZ9768843
36 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Baidya, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Well disciplined, born and brought up in a family with full of moral values, I am a girl of integrity, honesty and ..."
Matrimony Bride CRG1840563
Matrimony ID - CRG1840563
24 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Tantuway, Bengali
Krishnanagar, West Bengal, India
"Living in Krishnanagar. I am from a middle class, moderate family. I am the only child....."
Matrimony Bride PJV7766860
Matrimony ID - PJV7766860
49 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Chinsurah, West Bengal, India
"Residing in Chinsurah. Our family is middle class and we have moderate values. I have 4 siblings, of which 4 are ma..."
Matrimony Bride BVB7382283
Matrimony ID - BVB7382283
25 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Namasudra, Bengali
Guwahati, Assam, India
"I have successfully finished my masters. Our family is middle class and we have traditional values. I have no sibli..."
Matrimony Bride TLW4665380
Matrimony ID - TLW4665380
29 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India
"I am staying in Ahmedabad. I am from a middle class, liberal family. I only have one sibling. I have achieved my ma..."
Matrimony Bride CKC1745758
Matrimony ID - CKC1745758
34 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Banik, Bengali
Bangalore, Karnataka, India
"Hi all, My daughter she is working in Bangalore in cancer laboratory. she has completed MPT and Executive health ca..."
Matrimony Bride GLY4864041
Matrimony ID - GLY4864041
25 years / 4 ft 5 in 134 cm
Hindu, Goala, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India

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Matrimony Bride LLF8663202
Matrimony ID - LLF8663202
22 years / 4 ft 10 in 148 cm
Hindu, Kashyap, Bengali
Other, West Bengal, India
"My family is lower class and traditional. I have no brothers or sisters. Living in West Bengal. I eat a non vegetar..."
Matrimony Bride TVM2724109
Matrimony ID - TVM2724109
32 years / 5 ft 153 cm
Hindu, Baidya, Bengali
Bangalore, Karnataka, India
"I have passed my masters and I am currently working full time in the field of Banking in J P Morgan and Chase. I am..."
Matrimony Bride DQP2686118
Matrimony ID - DQP2686118
30 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Lucknow, Uttar Pradesh, India
"Simplicity and peace is lovable for me. Veg and non-veg are liked as well.Capital Lucknow is my best liking city un..."
Matrimony Bride TDC5908655
Matrimony ID - TDC5908655
29 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Bilaspur, Chhattisgarh, India
"Residing in Bilaspur. Our family is middle-class and we have liberal values. I have no brothers or sisters. I have ..."
Matrimony Bride QSF0208887
Matrimony ID - QSF0208887
28 years / 5 ft 8 in 173 cm
Hindu, Kashyap, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India
"Residing in New Delhi. Our family is upper-middle-class and moderate. I only have one sibling and he is single. I h..."
Matrimony Bride BPP0721780
Matrimony ID - BPP0721780
33 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Kharagpur, West Bengal, India

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Matrimony Bride NZN7108054
Matrimony ID - NZN7108054
32 years / 5 ft 153 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh
"I am working full time in other. I hail from a middle-class, traditional family. I have no brothers or sisters. Bas..."

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What is Bengali matrimony?

Bengali matrimony takes place between a bride and groom who speak Bengali (বেঙ্গ'লী) as their first language. Native to the region of Bengal and with over 250 million speakers, Bengali is one of the most spoken languages in the world and the second most spoken in India.

The National Anthem of India was first composed using the Bengali language.

Bengali matrimony, also referred to as Biye, is an elaborate affair with meaningful rituals seeded in cultural values. Bengalis are known for their good intellectuality, passion and sensitivity. Their matrimonial ceremonies also reflect the same. The two main communities in Bengal are the Bangals (Bengali Hindus originating from modern-day Bangladesh) and Ghotis (the ones originating in West Bengal). There is a slight variation between the rituals of each community.

Let's have a closer view of all the pre-wedding, wedding and post-wedding rituals of a Bengali matrimony.

What are the Bengali wedding rituals?

Paka Katha or Pati Potro - It refers to a formal meeting between elders of both the families to make a mutual agreement on different aspects of marriage. Term Paka Katha is used by Ghotis while Pati Potro is by Bangals.

Aiburobhat - Held a day before the wedding, this ritual signifies the celebration of last day of bachelorhood for the bride and the groom. It begins with a bridal shower where the bride receives gifts from friends and relatives followed by serving her a feast consisting rice and fish. A similar ritual takes place at the groom's place.

Sankha Porano - A bangle ceremony where the Bengali girls wear traditional Bengali bangles known as Sankh (made up of conch shell) and Pola bangles (made up of red corals).

Jol Sowa - It takes place on the wedding day dawn during which mother of the bride and groom along with few married women of the family visits a waterbody in their respective neighborhood. They fill a brass pitcher with water which is later be used to bathe the bride and groom.

Dodhi Mongol - As the bride and groom have to fast during whole wedding day rituals, thus they are fed with a mixture made of sweet curd, rice flakes, banana and sweets like Sandesh in ample quantity before sunrise.

Birddhi Puja - This ritual is involves providing tribute to seven generations of paternal ancestors, to conciliate their soul and seek their blessings for the couple. This is performed by the father of bride and groom at their respective houses.

Gaye Holud and Tattwa - It is the haldi ceremony which is observed in almost all Indian marriages. A paste of fresh turmeric and mustard oil is the first applied to groom by married women in the family along with his mother. He then takes bath with the water procured during Jal Sowa. The remaining turmeric paste is kept in a silver bowl and sent to bride's place along with trousseau ( a traditional outfit to be worn during the Gaye Holud) and a whole Rohu fish. The Gaye Holud is then performed at the bride's place in a similar fashion to the groom's.

Bor Jatri and Boron - After getting ready in typical Bengali wedding attire (the Panjabi kurta and dhoti along with 'Topor' on the head) the groom starts from his house towards the wedding venue. The Bengali boys and the Bor Jatri are welcomed with blowing of conch shells and ululations (a typical sound made by Bengali women from their mouth). He is welcomed by bride's mother with a Baran Dala, a large tray made of cane containing auspicious ingredients like rice, turmeric, betel nuts, a bunch of banana and a lighted diya. She escorts him in.

Ashirbaad - The elders from bride's side bless the groom and with gifts. In the similar manner elders accompanying groom blesses the bride.

Saat Paak and Subho Drishti - The groom is brought into the wedding mandap known as Chhadnatolla and some initial puja is performed. The groom is then asked to change into his Jor (a two piece wedding dress). The bride is carried to mandap by 4-5 male members of the family then is made to sit on a wooden platform known as Piri. she has to hide her face from view with the help of a couple of betel leaves. The bride then circumambulates around the groom seven times aided by the male relatives carrying her. This is known as Saat Paak. The bride and groom are then placed in front of each other. The bride removes the betel leaves and the two set their eyes on each other, amidst hooting, and sounds of conch shells and ululations. This is known as Subho Drishti.

Mala Badal - During this ritual the couple exchanges their garlands.

Kanya Sampradan - During this ritual, the bride is officially given away to the groom. Father of the bride unite the hands of the couple and it is bound by sacred thread, and the priest chants the mantras.

Hom - This symbolizes offerings to the holy fire to seek the blessing of all Hindu mythological gods and goddesses. The whole process is accompanied by Vedic mantras chanted by the priest. This is followed by Saptapadi moving around the holy fire, which signifies the seven sacred vows of marriage.

Lajanjali/Kusumdinge - The bride's brother puts Laja (puffed rice) into her hands, the groom joins her hands from behind and together they pour the offering in the fire.

Sindoor Daan - The groom applies Sindoor on the parting of bride's hair and he covers her head with a new saree known as the Lajjabastra.

Post-Wedding Rituals

Bashi Biye - Among the Ghotis Community, the Kusukdinge and Sindoor Daan rituals take place on the morning of the day after the wedding. This is known as the Bashi Biye.

Bidaai - It refers to the departure of the couple from the bride's place. Among the Ghoti community, the couple departs on the morning time while the Bangal rituals dictate that the couple leaves before evening.

Bodhu Baran - This marks the welcome of the bride into her in-laws house. Water is poured under the vehicle, a vessel containing milk and Alta (Iac dye) is placed outside the door and the bride needs to step into it and the imprint of her feet are put on white fabric.

Kaal Ratri - The couple spends their first night separately to get a refreshing sleep for next day rituals.

Bou Bhaat - The bride cooks for the first time for her husband's family.

Reception - In the evening the groom's family invites their relatives for a reception where they get to meet the new bride and offer their best wishes to the couple.

Phul Sojja - The couple's bedroom is decorated with colorful flowers and the couple spends their first night together.

Diragaman/Astamangala/SubhoChani Satyanarayan Pujo - On the eighth day of the wedding the couple visits the bride's place. A Satyanarayan puja is performed and the thread tied during the wedding is removed by the priest. This marks the end of all wedding rituals.