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Matrimony Groom EOR4593566
Matrimony ID - EOR4593566
32 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Muslim, Other, Bengali
Other, Selangor, Malaysia
"I m a simple man..finding my life Partner in Malaysia because I love to living Malaysia long life......"
Matrimony Groom LIO5016060
Matrimony ID - LIO5016060
32 years / 5 ft 11 in 181 cm
Hindu, Baishya, Bengali
Midnapore, West Bengal, India
"I am dealer in Kolaghat of Asian Paints and ici Dulux paints. Awaiting for divorce...."
Matrimony Groom TWE8740324
Matrimony ID - TWE8740324
27 years / 5 ft 10 in 178 cm
Hindu, Khandayat, Bengali
Bhubaneswar, Odisha, India
"Hey Friends i think all are Doing we'll, my self manoj I'm such my life pattern who was understanding with me. And ..."
Matrimony Groom GRO6528058
Matrimony ID - GRO6528058
34 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India
"I am a resident of Assam. I work in a leading public sector bank as a senior manager, currently posted at Delhi. R..."
Matrimony Groom RLV6645754
Matrimony ID - RLV6645754
66 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Ghaziabad, Uttar Pradesh, India
"Hi there, me in a nutshell. I have completed my Bachelors and I'm currently living in Ghaziabad. Although I'm fo..."
Matrimony Groom DTO3623733
Matrimony ID - DTO3623733
34 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Kuala Terengganu, Terengganu, Malaysia
"Hi, this is Dr. Nd. Nurul Islam, senior lecturer, UMT.looking for a caring wife...."
Matrimony Groom JQJ9168037
Matrimony ID - JQJ9168037
47 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"I am mechanical diploma holder. Very simple. Song lover and sport lover...."
Matrimony Groom LRA3023132
Matrimony ID - LRA3023132
33 years / 5 ft 10 in 178 cm
Muslim, Sunni, Bengali
Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh
"I just a family lover, friendly and kind person...."
Matrimony Groom PNI3734203
Matrimony ID - PNI3734203
25 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Khulna, Khulna, Bangladesh
"Actually I want to marry a girl. That girl take me near to her forever. I will love the girl forever...."
Matrimony Groom CFA2652283
Matrimony ID - CFA2652283
47 years / 5 ft 10 in 178 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"I am a businessperson from kolkata,47years of age.he is graduate from Calcutta university.his business is real esta..."
Matrimony Groom TPS2078154
Matrimony ID - TPS2078154
32 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Modak, Bengali
Ranchi, Jharkhand, India
"I have been living in Ranchi since my birth. I am tall, moderately build and posses medium complexion. I am an ener..."
Matrimony Groom PEE4455776
Matrimony ID - PEE4455776
31 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"I am a simple guy. Looking for a simple lifepartner. love hang out with friends and watch movies. currently work..."
Matrimony Groom ALN0180243
Matrimony ID - ALN0180243
43 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Barasat, West Bengal, India
"I am simple minded commerce graduate with computer knowledge. I born & brought up in Kolkata in simple family backg..."
Matrimony Groom JSK9453115
Matrimony ID - JSK9453115
43 years / 5 ft 10 in 178 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Myself living in Behala Kolkata with my mother in my own flat..the other flat is on rent..father expired on 15th Au..."
Matrimony Groom LOA0014883
Matrimony ID - LOA0014883
29 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"My brother is working in Reliance Industries. In his family my brother and younger sister who is doing Masters in N..."
Matrimony Groom HCW7755045
Matrimony ID - HCW7755045
34 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Muslim, Shia, Bengali
Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
"Tuhin khan jalan landak of jalan pudu 50100 pudubplaza malaysia Kualalampur..."
Matrimony Groom LQR5978885
Matrimony ID - LQR5978885
43 years / 5 ft 11 in 181 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Family consist of only mother and my self, father expired recently. Looking for a sober simple partner with whom I ..."
Matrimony Groom SCL2132516
Matrimony ID - SCL2132516
29 years / 5 ft 8 in 173 cm
No Religion, No Religion, Bengali
Mumbai, Maharashtra, India
"Currently working as an teacher in a reputed coaching centre for five years. Done Bsc in mathematics from St.Xav..."
Matrimony Groom SGT8700666
Matrimony ID - SGT8700666
45 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Yadav, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India
"I am very simple and industrious. I am very caring guy. I am from a micro family with the three - me my mother and ..."
Matrimony Groom KYV3352211
Matrimony ID - KYV3352211
29 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Lucknow, Uttar Pradesh, India
"I belong to a middle-class family background. I am born in Jamshedpur but presently working in Lucknow. I respect m..."
Matrimony Groom SEO5232306
Matrimony ID - SEO5232306
31 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Barasat, West Bengal, India
"I belong a middle-class family. My father is a government employees he is now retaide. My mother is a homemaker. We..."
Matrimony Groom KIS2970145
Matrimony ID - KIS2970145
37 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Napit, Bengali
Barasat, West Bengal, India
"#  M.B.A. – “Information Systems” from Annamalai University .  Scored 49.62% marks in Graduation - fr..."
Matrimony Groom OHW4319313
Matrimony ID - OHW4319313
32 years / 5 ft 8 in 173 cm
Muslim, Bengali, Bengali
Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh
"Assalamualaikum, I am Mazumdar Foysal, Completed M.S.S., doing job as Manager of multinational com.Father was a pri..."
Matrimony Groom JJA9343315
Matrimony ID - JJA9343315
43 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Pune, Maharashtra, India
"Medical superintendent of a 1200 bedded super-speciality teaching hospital in Pune... Travel frequently to attend c..."
Matrimony Groom BGK1721180
Matrimony ID - BGK1721180
28 years / 5 ft 1 in 155 cm
Hindu, Banik, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"Need a true love and good heart girl I love cooking traveling. Down you earth person I am little bit emotion...."
Matrimony Groom NQU8350270
Matrimony ID - NQU8350270
45 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Siliguri, West Bengal, India
"Hello, I'm santanu from siliguri. My parents are very aged. I want to marry someone who has the ability to take res..."
Matrimony Groom CNP2017836
Matrimony ID - CNP2017836
31 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Srirampur, West Bengal, India
"My son is a simple, fun-loving, easy going, honest person. He prefers to abide by law and order. Well qualified and..."
Matrimony Bride SLF4781546
Matrimony ID - SLF4781546
28 years / 5 ft 1 in 155 cm
Hindu, Barujibi, Bengali
Guwahati, Assam, India
"Hi my name is Ranita Paul. I am working part time and have done my masters and now pursuing CA. Our family is middl..."
Matrimony Bride RLK7425105
Matrimony ID - RLK7425105
26 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Bilaspur, Chhattisgarh, India
"Hi I am Sharmistha...."
Matrimony Bride QUM6243321
Matrimony ID - QUM6243321
33 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Ghaziabad, Uttar Pradesh, India
"Our daughter Vaijayanti is a beautiful, elegant and accomplished young lady from a highly cultured and educated Ben..."
Matrimony Bride RGG0204608
Matrimony ID - RGG0204608
20 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Other, Bengali
Other, West Bengal, India
"Our family is middle-class and we have moderate values. I have no siblings. I am vegetarian. I don't smoke or drink..."
Matrimony Bride MMF5511193
Matrimony ID - MMF5511193
47 years / 5 ft 153 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"I come from a middle-class, moderate family. I am the only child. I eat a non vegetarian diet. I don't smoke or dri..."
Matrimony Bride HTY7682580
Matrimony ID - HTY7682580
28 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Sambalpur, Odisha, India
"I am a teacher. I have completed my M.Phil in English, looking forward to my Ph.D. I am an avid reader. I come from..."
Matrimony Bride AFR0743973
Matrimony ID - AFR0743973
26 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Kshatriya, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India

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Matrimony Bride FBR5805478
Matrimony ID - FBR5805478
33 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Jorhat, Assam, India
"My family is middle-class and traditional. I have two siblings. I am eggetarian. I don't smoke or drink. ..."
Matrimony Bride TJQ1355473
Matrimony ID - TJQ1355473
23 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Other, West Bengal, India

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Matrimony Bride JBO9537770
Matrimony ID - JBO9537770
26 years / 4 ft 5 in 134 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Hazaribag, Jharkhand, India
"I have done my associates degree and am currently working full time. I am from a liberal, middle class family. I ha..."
Matrimony Bride CIE2327812
Matrimony ID - CIE2327812
29 years / 4 ft 9 in 145 cm
Hindu, Kashyap, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India

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Matrimony Bride LDB2231024
Matrimony ID - LDB2231024
28 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Baishya, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India
"Hi…My name is Didhiti Podder…Please read my profile very very carefuly before any kind of proceedings…I am a ..."
Matrimony Bride JBB9510681
Matrimony ID - JBB9510681
26 years / 5 ft 1 in 155 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Kolkata, West Bengal, India
"My name is Sampa Mukherjee. I Live in Janai with my family. I need simple, handsome & down to earth person...."
Matrimony Bride VIM4453250
Matrimony ID - VIM4453250
26 years / 5 ft 1 in 155 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Khulna, Khulna, Bangladesh

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Matrimony Bride RJA6862007
Matrimony ID - RJA6862007
39 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Christian, Roman Catholic, Bengali
Other, Delhi, India
"We are from a Bengali Christian family. My daughter yes in Noida where she works and stays. She is the eldest child..."
Matrimony Bride YKR0136320
Matrimony ID - YKR0136320
28 years / 5 ft 6 in 168 cm
Hindu, Baishya, Bengali
Howra, West Bengal, India

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Matrimony Bride AES0643511
Matrimony ID - AES0643511
29 years / 5 ft 5 in 166 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
New Delhi, Delhi, India
"Hi. Looking for a partner who will understand me and support me in all mt endeavours. Like traveling cooking and..."
Matrimony Bride LDR2346262
Matrimony ID - LDR2346262
24 years / 5 ft 7 in 171 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Bangalore, Karnataka, India

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Matrimony Bride UBT2547282
Matrimony ID - UBT2547282
27 years / 5 ft 3 in 161 cm
Hindu, Kayastha, Bengali
Bangalore, Karnataka, India
"Partner Preference: Gender:male Gon: deb, nar Height: 5'8" To 5'10" Body type : athlete, slim, average Open to..."
Matrimony Bride NWC3778004
Matrimony ID - NWC3778004
39 years / 5 ft 4 in 163 cm
Hindu, Bengali, Bengali
Ghaziabad, Uttar Pradesh, India

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Matrimony Bride UNN1164896
Matrimony ID - UNN1164896
26 years / 5 ft 2 in 158 cm
Hindu, Brahmin, Bengali
Asansol, West Bengal, India
"Nomoskar..I am here in search of a perfect match for my only daughter.She is a loving,caring,understanding and a bi..."

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What is Bengali matrimony?

Bengali matrimony takes place between a bride and groom who speak Bengali (বেঙ্গ'লী) as their first language. Native to the region of Bengal and with over 250 million speakers, Bengali is one of the most spoken languages in the world and the second most spoken in India.

The National Anthem of India was first composed using the Bengali language.

Bengali matrimony, also referred to as Biye, is an elaborate affair with meaningful rituals seeded in cultural values. Bengalis are known for their good intellectuality, passion and sensitivity. Their matrimonial ceremonies also reflect the same. The two main communities in Bengal are the Bangals (Bengali Hindus originating from modern-day Bangladesh) and Ghotis (the ones originating in West Bengal). There is a slight variation between the rituals of each community.

Let's have a closer view of all the pre-wedding, wedding and post-wedding rituals of a Bengali matrimony.

What are the Bengali wedding rituals?

Paka Katha or Pati Potro - It refers to a formal meeting between elders of both the families to make a mutual agreement on different aspects of marriage. Term Paka Katha is used by Ghotis while Pati Potro is by Bangals.

Aiburobhat - Held a day before the wedding, this ritual signifies the celebration of last day of bachelorhood for the bride and the groom. It begins with a bridal shower where the bride receives gifts from friends and relatives followed by serving her a feast consisting rice and fish. A similar ritual takes place at the groom's place.

Sankha Porano - A bangle ceremony where the Bengali girls wear traditional Bengali bangles known as Sankh (made up of conch shell) and Pola bangles (made up of red corals).

Jol Sowa - It takes place on the wedding day dawn during which mother of the bride and groom along with few married women of the family visits a waterbody in their respective neighborhood. They fill a brass pitcher with water which is later be used to bathe the bride and groom.

Dodhi Mongol - As the bride and groom have to fast during whole wedding day rituals, thus they are fed with a mixture made of sweet curd, rice flakes, banana and sweets like Sandesh in ample quantity before sunrise.

Birddhi Puja - This ritual is involves providing tribute to seven generations of paternal ancestors, to conciliate their soul and seek their blessings for the couple. This is performed by the father of bride and groom at their respective houses.

Gaye Holud and Tattwa - It is the haldi ceremony which is observed in almost all Indian marriages. A paste of fresh turmeric and mustard oil is the first applied to groom by married women in the family along with his mother. He then takes bath with the water procured during Jal Sowa. The remaining turmeric paste is kept in a silver bowl and sent to bride's place along with trousseau ( a traditional outfit to be worn during the Gaye Holud) and a whole Rohu fish. The Gaye Holud is then performed at the bride's place in a similar fashion to the groom's.

Bor Jatri and Boron - After getting ready in typical Bengali wedding attire (the Panjabi kurta and dhoti along with 'Topor' on the head) the groom starts from his house towards the wedding venue. The Bengali boys and the Bor Jatri are welcomed with blowing of conch shells and ululations (a typical sound made by Bengali women from their mouth). He is welcomed by bride's mother with a Baran Dala, a large tray made of cane containing auspicious ingredients like rice, turmeric, betel nuts, a bunch of banana and a lighted diya. She escorts him in.

Ashirbaad - The elders from bride's side bless the groom and with gifts. In the similar manner elders accompanying groom blesses the bride.

Saat Paak and Subho Drishti - The groom is brought into the wedding mandap known as Chhadnatolla and some initial puja is performed. The groom is then asked to change into his Jor (a two piece wedding dress). The bride is carried to mandap by 4-5 male members of the family then is made to sit on a wooden platform known as Piri. she has to hide her face from view with the help of a couple of betel leaves. The bride then circumambulates around the groom seven times aided by the male relatives carrying her. This is known as Saat Paak. The bride and groom are then placed in front of each other. The bride removes the betel leaves and the two set their eyes on each other, amidst hooting, and sounds of conch shells and ululations. This is known as Subho Drishti.

Mala Badal - During this ritual the couple exchanges their garlands.

Kanya Sampradan - During this ritual, the bride is officially given away to the groom. Father of the bride unite the hands of the couple and it is bound by sacred thread, and the priest chants the mantras.

Hom - This symbolizes offerings to the holy fire to seek the blessing of all Hindu mythological gods and goddesses. The whole process is accompanied by Vedic mantras chanted by the priest. This is followed by Saptapadi moving around the holy fire, which signifies the seven sacred vows of marriage.

Lajanjali/Kusumdinge - The bride's brother puts Laja (puffed rice) into her hands, the groom joins her hands from behind and together they pour the offering in the fire.

Sindoor Daan - The groom applies Sindoor on the parting of bride's hair and he covers her head with a new saree known as the Lajjabastra.

Post-Wedding Rituals

Bashi Biye - Among the Ghotis Community, the Kusukdinge and Sindoor Daan rituals take place on the morning of the day after the wedding. This is known as the Bashi Biye.

Bidaai - It refers to the departure of the couple from the bride's place. Among the Ghoti community, the couple departs on the morning time while the Bangal rituals dictate that the couple leaves before evening.

Bodhu Baran - This marks the welcome of the bride into her in-laws house. Water is poured under the vehicle, a vessel containing milk and Alta (Iac dye) is placed outside the door and the bride needs to step into it and the imprint of her feet are put on white fabric.

Kaal Ratri - The couple spends their first night separately to get a refreshing sleep for next day rituals.

Bou Bhaat - The bride cooks for the first time for her husband's family.

Reception - In the evening the groom's family invites their relatives for a reception where they get to meet the new bride and offer their best wishes to the couple.

Phul Sojja - The couple's bedroom is decorated with colorful flowers and the couple spends their first night together.

Diragaman/Astamangala/SubhoChani Satyanarayan Pujo - On the eighth day of the wedding the couple visits the bride's place. A Satyanarayan puja is performed and the thread tied during the wedding is removed by the priest. This marks the end of all wedding rituals.